Share via Email I'm 51 and live with my girlfriend of five years. My problem is my constant, unrelenting obsession with sex. I can't stop looking at porn or leching at other women. I desire every woman in the world except my girlfriend.
Larger text size Very large text size There is a common belief that most men would like to have sex all the time, but is this really the case? Research shows that women want sex much more than we are led to believe. In my practice, I see almost as many women who complain their partners don't want sex as much as they do, as I see men. What do women really want? Apparently they want the same freedom with sex as men.
Love can hardly wait to give. Lust can hardly wait to get. Lust turns people into liars, deceivers, and manipulators. Their actions towards others are based on the craving to get.
After all, lust, says Richard Dawkins, professor of animal behaviour at Oxford University and author of The Selfish Gene, is an essential evolutionary trait in humans that ensures the survival of our species. So before you get down and dirty, think clean — your clothes, body and scent. Make Her Laugh Besides your looks, your personality and chemistry are traits that will help her form an opinion of you — either as a sex god or a total buffoon. But unlike men, who generally appreciate witty oneliners or sarcastic rants, women find men who tell self-reflective, humourous stories more engaging.